{"id":3383,"date":"2013-11-17T00:53:22","date_gmt":"2013-11-17T04:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kerryhannon.com\/?p=3383"},"modified":"2013-11-17T00:53:22","modified_gmt":"2013-11-17T04:53:22","slug":"how-to-mentor-women-vets-whod-love-your-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kerryhannon.com\/?p=3383","title":{"rendered":"How to Mentor Women Vets Who’d Love Your Help"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"next-ave\"<\/a>Charlie Palumbo, 33, has had seven jobs in three states since leaving the Navy just over a decade ago. To say the least, she\u2019s had a rocky path to finding work.<\/p>\n

But in July, the Charlottesville, Va. mother of two got her \u201cdream job\u201d as the veterans outreach coordinator at the Virginia Employment Commission, assisting the panel in its efforts to hire veterans. For that, Palumbo credits her mentor, Mary G.R. Whitley, 55, a senior vice president at ICF International in Rockville, Md.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe pushed me out, gave me confidence and focused me,\u201d said Palumbo.<\/p>\n

The Mentoring Group For Women Veterans<\/strong><\/p>\n

For nearly two years, Palumbo has tapped Whitley\u2019s mentoring guidance through\u00a0Joining Forces Mentoring Plus<\/a>,\u00a0a worthy group custom-tailored to women veterans, military spouses and caregivers of wounded warriors. Whitley’s\u00a0advice helped the former payroll-dispensing Navy clerk translate her military skills into the next step in her career.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a huge advocate of career mentoring, but didn\u2019t know about Joining Forces Mentoring Plus until I heard a presentation by Mary Ann Sack at the recent\u00a0Women\u2019s Institute for a Secure Retirement<\/a>\u00a0(WISER)\u00a02013 Women\u2019s Retirement Symposium<\/a>\u00a0in Washington, D.C.<\/p>\n

(MORE:\u00a0<\/strong>Why Women Need to Be Mentors or Find Them<\/a>)<\/p>\n

Sack is director of business development and programming at the\u00a0Business and Professional Women’s Foundation<\/a>, the organization behind the mentoring program, which provides unlimited free online career development tools and resources to participants. Her passionate talk about the challenges that these types of women face finding work \u2014 and the assistance Joining Forces Mentoring Plus has provided \u2014 really caught my attention.<\/p>\n

So with\u00a0Veterans Day<\/a>\u00a0around the corner, I decided to learn more about this group, the serious need it\u2019s addressing and how women can sign up to offer their assistance.<\/p>\n

Career Challenges Female Vets Face\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what I found out: The 7.5 percent unemployment rate for female veterans (as of September) exceeds the 6.3 percent jobless level for male vets. What\u2019s more, 26 percent of the nearly 2 million military\/veteran spouses were out of work in 2012.<\/p>\n

\u201cMany of the women we work with, who may or may not have graduated from high school, went into the military because it was a last option,\u201d said Sack. As a result, they often lack a college diploma or the life framework that lets them fit back into the working world, she explained.<\/p>\n

(MORE:<\/strong>\u00a0Why You Should Mentor — and How to Do It<\/a>)<\/p>\n

In addition, women coming out of the armed forces typically don\u2019t have a network of business professionals who can lead them to job opportunities.<\/p>\n

During their military tours, women acquire important skills across a myriad of technical areas, Sack said, but \u201cthey struggle because they don\u2019t have the kind of connecting relationships that enable them to examine their skills and what they might want to do with them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Another problem: translating military lingo to a resum\u00e9. Plus, when it comes to the body language of interviewing, female vets often come across as formal and stiff. Some need help figuring out\u00a0what to wear to the job interview<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Moreover, military-trained women \u2014 like stereotypical male drivers \u2014 often have trouble asking for direction.\u00a0\u201cThey\u2019re coming from a world where asking for help is a sign of weakness,\u201d Sack said. \u201cAnd you also don’t ask\u00a0up<\/em>. You ask\u00a0across<\/em>\u00a0to get the answer. By contrast, in our working culture, it\u2019s generally a positive thing to say, \u2018I don’t understand this, can you help me?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

How Joining Forces Mentoring Plus Helps<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, Joining Forces Mentoring Plus isn\u2019t the only organization trying to employ more veterans. The U.S. Chamber of Commerce Foundation and the U.S. Department of Labor both run programs. And some private companies have launched initiatives. For example,\u00a0Starbucks just announced a plan to hire at least 10,000 military veterans<\/a>\u00a0and active-duty spouses over the next five years.<\/p>\n

But Joining Forces Mentoring Plus has a particularly impressive toolkit for women. The group does everything from tracking down ways to pay college tuition in order to learn new skills to identifying successful female mentors who\u2019ll hone their career objectives and package their talents so they can find great jobs or start businesses.<\/p>\n

The organization’s goal: to build the Joining Forces Mentoring Plus community from its current 1,000 mentors and mentees to 5,000 over the next two years.<\/p>\n

(MORE:<\/strong>\u00a0Bob Woodruff\u2019s Charity for Heroes<\/a>)<\/p>\n

How One Navy Vet Was Helped<\/strong><\/p>\n

After a friend told her about the group, Palumbo submitted her application online to be a mentee. Within a day, she received five names of potential mentors, ultimately selecting Whitley, a veteran and West Point grad.<\/p>\n

For starters, Whitley helped Palumbo revamp her resum\u00e9 to show potential employers how she has used her military experience since returning to the civilian workforce.\u00a0\u201cI didn’t see that what I was doing during my Navy experience was customer service and project management.\u201d Palumbo said. \u201cMary was able to help me see how that flowed through everything I had been doing.\u201d<\/p>\n

After that, Palumbo and Whitley talked about the types of jobs she was pursuing and whether they would be beneficial to establishing her career. Palumbo admitted she signed up for the Navy before graduating high school because she didn\u2019t know what to do next, and that, in many ways, that\u2019s exactly how she felt when leaving the military.<\/p>\n

Next, Whitley helped her complete an application for a leadership-training program run by the U.S. Office of Personnel Management and American University. Palumbo was one of 20 young leaders accepted.<\/p>\n

That experience and a revised resum\u00e9 helped land her new position. Since working with Whitley, Palumbo\u2019s pay has jumped 40 percent.<\/p>\n

Initially, the two talked by phone for an hour or more every two weeks. These days, it\u2019s generally more like once a month. But Palumbo said she doesn’t hesitate to reach out by email or phone when necessary to Whitley, \u201cI am freaking out over this, can you help me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Palumbo says the mentoring has given her an entirely new way to approach work.\u00a0\u201cNow I look at what I\u2019m doing each day as part of a career, not just a job that helps pay the bills,” she said. “Mary helped me make that big shift in how I see myself.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ways Women Can Join Up<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women who\u2019d like to help out at Joining Forces Mentoring Plus can do so in a variety of ways.<\/p>\n

If you want to offer your expertise occasionally, you could become a subject-matter expert. For instance, you might lend your services offering tips on rewriting a resum\u00e9, negotiating a salary or starting a business.<\/p>\n

If you want to mentor, you might be able to do so through your employer. The program has partnerships with more than 55 companies and organizations such as Citicorp, Intel and CVS Caremark. Otherwise, you can sign up on the Joining Forces Mentoring Plus website.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019d like to be a one-on-one mentor, prepare to make a serious commitment. \u201cWe are not looking for someone who is just interested in a six-month gig,\u201d said Sack. \u201cWe want to be forming relationships with these women that take them through their careers.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kerry Hannon has spent more than 25 years covering personal finance for Forbes, Money, U.S. News & World Report and USA Today. Her website is\u00a0kerryhannon.com<\/a>. Follow her on Twitter\u00a0@kerryhannon<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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